To Cat re removed post this morning

[pope]

Your question was "Does anyone ever feel they are just living for everybody else?"
My reply I tried to post but I guess while you were deleting as follows:
Yes I think a lot of us and particularly women tend to give all their focus and attention to our families, children, work, and friends. We can forget to think of ourselves at all. Take a step back and remember the last time you put yourself first. If you realize this is an ongoing problem start taking time to do things that focus solely on your wishes and desire. It could be as simple as pampering yourself in a bubble bath, going for a walk in nature, buying a new pair of jeans, or joining a class for something you have always wanted to learn.
Remember you are a worthwhile valuable person deserving of love, support, and encouragement. Sounded as if you could use a hug. So here's a big one just for you.
Take care.

[moon]

Thanks Joanna, you really should've ignored me though...I'm stupid. Arrgh I'm unbelievable posting on here with such stupid things all the time...omg
The reason I posted that question was because last night I was kind of depressed about the kind of person I am and was trying to think of the reasons I've not killed myself yet and the only reasons I could think of were that I don't want to upset my parents, brother and friends. I'm a waste of a life to be honest. Ah I'm not going to moan any further because I'm pathetic, I don't have the right to come here moaning about my life when I know that others here have it worse than me. I'm just self-obsessed aren't I??? Arrgh I hate it! I'm really sorry.
Your advice is good though, thank you very much. People here are so kind

[joung]

Never feel stupid for posting what you are feeling even if it sounds silly.
You deserve to be heard and your asking for help and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that.
That's what this forum is here for and believe me I have posted some dillies in my time here. Feel open to vent everything your feeling and you will be surprised how many of us here feel or have felt the same way. It really helps to be heard and have people who understand listen, we are here to help. Please tell us some more abut your situation. I won't be able to add another post till after work but I know the good people here are listening too.

Remember here you can cry, rant, vent, ask and we will help in anyway we can. Take care I'll be checking in after work late this afternoon.
Hugs to you Cat. Signing off.